Ask the universe and the universe will respond to your thoughts. Write down what you want and place your order with the universe.

No one seems to know and we have no manual in which we are properly forewarned about these crucial years. When I was younger, a lot of important info that I could have used to respawn a couple times was not given to me.

Don't try to fit in a space not meant for you, can't force it either. You have to know who you are and don't ever be afraid to accept that version of you. This means have a good sense of judgement and understand what's meant for you and what is not.

ALWAYS love yourself first because Pay attention to how your partner speaks to you and how they make you feel more times than others. When you start to feel like you're losing yourself loving someone it's because you are becoming drained emotionally and your not listening to your intuition aka your gut.