No one seems to know and we have no manual in which we are properly forewarned about these crucial years. When I was younger, a lot of important info that I could have used to respawn a couple times was not given to me.

Everything you attract in your life is what you are putting out into the universe.

ALWAYS love yourself first because Pay attention to how your partner speaks to you and how they make you feel more times than others. When you start to feel like you're losing yourself loving someone it's because you are becoming drained emotionally and your not listening to your intuition aka your gut.

everyone wants to make it & the thing is we can all make it if we stopped comparing ourselves to others.